Adventures of a tribal dancer...

My favorite, easiest food-prep thing is making a giant pork shoulder--as big as I can fit in the slow cooker--shredding it, portioning some of it for this week and some for the freezer. This takes me about 10 minutes of prep on the front end, and 10 on the back to shred and portion. The rest is waiting on the slow cooker to cook it up, and at the end waiting for it to cool down before portioning.

Last week being Cinco de Mayo, the grocery store had large bone-in Boston pork butt on a wicked sale, so I got one. It was so big (around 6 lbs), I had to throw out a small hank of meat I could not get to fit in the slow-cooker and keep the lid tight. You can cut think into 2-3 hunks of meat if it helps to fit it into your slow cooker.

Rub with cumin, rosemary, garlic powder, salt, pepper. Cinnamon and any hot spice you like also goes well (cayenne, chili powder, whatever).

Place pork fat cap up in slow cooker.

Toss in 6-8 crushed garlic cloves, a rough chopped white or yellow onion, and if you have oranges and/or limes, juice one or both, and throw the orange peel in with it (never the lime peel/rind, it can be bitter).

Pour in a 1/2 to 1 cup of chicken stock, or water if you don't have that. If I know I plan to have this as carnitas, I will pour in a jar of green salsa as well minus some to put on the tacos later. If you want to keep it more neutral, just stick with the ingredients I already mentioned.

Cover. Cook on low for 8-10 hours, high for 5-6 hours. I try to go the full 10 whenever possible, or start with two hours on high, then drop to low to speed it up a little and land somewhere between these timings. Unlike some cuts of meat, I have never ever had any issue with going too long with pork shoulder when on low, so you can finesse this.

Pull pork out with tongs and transfer to a wide, shallow dish or baking pan to cool a bit. If you did it right, it will absolutely crumble to bits as you're pulling it out because it is so moist. Shred, then add back some of the cooking liquid and stir up.

IF EATING NOW:
If eating any or all of this now, put whatever amount you want onto a baking tray and you can throw this baby under the broiler to get some crispy bits going. Turn frequently with tongs to get more crispy bits.

IF FOOD PREP FOR LATER:
If you don't plan to eat this now and just are prepping for days and weeks ahead, let cool enough to portion into ziplocks/freezer bags, label accordingly, and voila! You have a bunch of delicious meals done with minimal hands-on time. Just defrost and either crisp in a pan or under a broiler before serving with your desired accompaniments.

Serve up for tacos, burritos, BBQ sandwiches, whatever. I love to crisp some up and serve with avocado and a fried egg on top for breakfast. YUM!

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ADULTING: CLEANING TIP

by Shay Moore The TribalDancer Friday, May 06, 2022

Friends, I really really wish someone had told me about this decades ago. Well, some of them did I am sure, but it sounded too simple to work, so I glossed over it. But now I have tried it and can say firsthand it works just as great as they say (and reading the comments below the blog post shows even more effusive praise).

Literally, simply this:

Mix 1 part Dawn dish soap, 1 part vinegar, put in spray bottle
Spray evenly on surface, let sit a moment or 5
Wipe down with sponge or moist cloth
Rinse
Nearly weep with joy

Our new shower is all glass...6+ feet of glass tall and wide. It's a lot of glass. We got a special coating on it which is supposed to help combat soap scum, and we also use an after-shower spray on all surfaces. But of course, nothing can stop soap scum completely.

When we started to get build-up, we were worried that the special coating we were using would be damaged if we used anything too harsh. We had tried Windex and gentle bathroom cleaners for the last few months to try to clean up the soap scum that was accumulating; but it wasn't working, and the build-up continued to get worse. Given this seamless glass it is kind of a showpiece of the bathroom, I was getting sick of looking at it like that. So in desperation, I thought it couldn't hurt to just TRY this. It's cheap, I had the ingredients in my house right now, so what could it hurt?

Like, yo. YO. Do it. I used it on the glass, on the tiles, on the floor. It's...magic? I don't know. For something so simple, why aren't more people in my life using this and absolutely **crowing** about it? Stop buying all the cleaning stuff you've ben trying up to now and try this NOW. I am going to try it on my toilets, too, which several commenters said they started doing to great effect.
WARNING: DO NOT USE ON NATURAL STONE. Vinegar is too caustic and catch etch those surfaces. But on pretty much every other surface, it should be fine.

DAMN I wish I had this at our old house with the vintage tub which I could never get clean. I used Soft Scrub with bleach and a lot of elbow grease and still never got that tub "clean" by my standards (and my standards aren't that high, the tub was that bad). I wonder if this would have done the trick back then...
Anyway, all that to say: try this! Let me know how it works for you! Because it was a minor miracle for us.

Link to one of many blogs about this, including some extra tips:
https://saraheverafter.com/the-best-homemade-soap-scum-remover

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My Oculus Meta Quest Game Recommendations

by Shay Moore The TribalDancer Thursday, May 05, 2022

My awesome husband gifted me a 128G Oculus 1 in September of 2020 for my birthday. In less than 6 months after that, I decided to upgrade to the Oculus Quest 2 256G version, as I was already filling my headset with games such that I was running out of space. In the intervening time, I have gotten a gaggle of friends to purchase the Quest 2, which is now known as the Meta Quest 2, and have tried and fallen in love with many many games.

Recently some friends got new headsets, and I realized it would be helpful to list some of my favorite titles. I will break them into four categories: Movement & Music, Action & Shooters, Casual & Social, and Puzzle & Story. I am not really into sports games generally speaking, so you won't find much in that category for me, and what could be loosely called "sport" games I would put into Casual & Social.

In a future post, I am also going to list my top favorite accessories for the Meta Quest 2, to make game playing more comfortable, and so you can play longer!

Movement & Music

Beat Saber - $29.99
While it is not my favorite of the category, in my opinion, it is one of the must-haves for every Quest owner. It is a great intro to movement and rhythm games, has a good tutorial, has a reasonable footprint to play in (so small spaces won't keep you from playing it), and various play options to tailor your experience and level up as you gain skill. The base music catalog is not my favorite, but it'll get you moving, and there are a lot of DLC (downloadable content) in-app to expand your repertoire, including Imagine Dragons, Green Day, and most recently Billie Eilish.

Note: Beat Saber does not support custom song maps natively, but it can be done via SideQuest. However, it does break periodically when BS updates their software and the third party app that allows custom songs hasn't updated yet. And even then you have to go through SideQuest to set it all up again. I don't use custom songs for BS for this reason.

SynthRiders - $24.99
This is my favorite of the category, in both play style and music catalog. Bonus: it supports custom songs natively! So my catalog of available music is large for this title. I feel most like I am actually dancing in this one, vs Beat Saber which feels more like a sword-wielding ninja. It offers similar customizable experiences, where you can dial up or down the difficulty by changing the difficulty level, adding or removing barriers, 90 degree and 180 degree play, etc.

Others:
I have tried Pistol Whip, Smash Drums, Audio Trip, Supernatural, FitXR, and Dance Central. I just wasn't into them as much as these top two I recommend. Pistol Whip is fun for a shooting game, but isn't as exciting as a rhythm game; and there are simply shooters I like better. Audio Trip is most similar to SynthRiders, but I found the game mechanics less enjoyable for me. Supernatural and FitXR are really for, well, fitness. I LIKE that I get fitness benefits from my rhythm games, but it isn't why I play them. I play them because they are fun, but the fitness part is more incidental. And Dance Central I might enjoy more socially, but just wasn't fun for me solo, so I returned it. Your mileage may vary!

Action & Shooters

The Walking Dead - Saints and Sinners - $39.99
This is probably my favorite title on the platform, and it bridges between action/shooter and story. The story here is incredibly rich, the voice acting top notch, your sense of place is strong. You will be solving some puzzles and doing a lot of decision-making in conversation trees that will drive your unique story, and there are multiple endings to explore. But make no mistake: this is an action game where you will be sneaking, running for safety, stabbing wildly with whatever you have handy, and shooting guns you find and make. This game experience includes resource gathering and crafting elements as well, which are top of class. It scares the hell out of me, and I couldn't stop playing it until I had played it all the way through. Then they released bonus content and more story, and I choked back my fear and dove back in. Utterly addicting. Premium price tag, yes, but for a game that will deliver 100% and then some. (And another chapter is coming soon! AHHHH! CAN'T WAIT!)

Star Wars: Tales from the Galaxy's Edge - $24.99
SW: TFGE + DLC Bundle - $34.98
A longer title than even the full Vader Immortal Series combined (see below), and with more varied action and storytelling. You will visit a bevy of locations from the movies, picking up weaponry and money along the way. You'll buy upgraded equipment, make allies, and enjoy some side-quest fun in the form of finding colorful droid units as easter eggs in the environment. There is full questing in this one, and unlock-able achievements to keep the completionist in you happy for hours on end. I prefer this title over Vader Immortal--and there is certainly more content here--but it will be more challenging for casual gamers. If you want a more dip-your-toe storytelling experience with a little action, try Vader Immortal. If you're into the action as a primary player, this is the better choice, IMHO.

Vader Immortal Series - $29.97
You can buy each chapter individually for $9.99, but if playing in a virtual Star Wars universe interests you even a little, just get the whole thing. Around May 4th, it often goes on sale for 50% off (like right now), but I'd pay full price for this myself without complaint if I have the money. Each chapter has you playing through a short story, with you as a lightsaber-wielding protagonist. There is some light puzzling here, but largely you will be exploring, climbing, and waging battle against various enemies. The battles are not difficult, so even those who aren't familiar with this genre of gameplay will feel like the hero they were meant to be. Excellent graphics and voice acting.

Drop Dead: Dual Strike - $14.99
Good old fashioned shoot-em-up! Take the zombies out in various environments, from farms and cellars, to desert canyons and evil scientist lairs. This game is "on rails", which means it will bring you from point A to point B, and you don't have control over the path like you would in an open world like Walking Dead: S&S (above). Various zombies come at you from 180-270 degrees around you, and you'll use a myriad of guns and melee weapons to take them out. At the end of each chapter, you get a star rating for accuracy and speed, so if you like arcade style shooting games where you can replay levels to improve your score, this will be right up your alley.

Puzzle & Story

This is my favorite category of gaming, so you're gonna get a lot of suggestions here.

Puzzling Places - $14.99
I have been playing this since it was $4.99 on SideQuest, and backed their Patreon for months before their full release title. A full release which I gladly paid for all over again, and am enjoying the bells and whistles they added to the experience. Through the magic of 3D photogrammetry, the developers have created an interactive, immersive puzzle experience that I find incredibly challenging and relaxing at the same time. I love how this game gives me locations and objects to try to assemble, encouraging me to really appreciate the smallest details. A small corner of carpet I may never have appreciated before is suddenly my sole focus as I try to find its place is a palace sitting room scene. A particular shape of a rooftop in a faraway country demands my utter concentration as I seek the villa it belongs to. The full release added ambient soundscapes from the location of the photo, so you can hear music from the harpsichord, or bustling traffic and children playing from the park. You can choose easier or harder challenges by choosing your puzzle be split into fewer or more pieces.

This title overlaps between puzzle and casual, because it really is the kind of casual game you can just pick up and put down anytime you feel like it. but obviously...it's literally puzzles!

Red Matter - $24.99
This is right up among my top experiences on the Quest. It is a story-driven puzzle game set in a dystopian future, as an astronaut sent to a moon of Saturn to investigate...shenanigans. The graphics are excellent, the story engaging, and the puzzles just the right level of difficulty to make it challenging but not tear your hair out. It is suspenseful without being stressful, and does not rely on jump-scare type action to create a sense of foreboding. I was so sad when I was finished, wanting more; and the good news is, it is so popular a game, they are making a Red Matter 2!

Note: Some people said they got motion sickness from the movement style of this game, but I am sensitive to that and I did not personally experience that.

Down the Rabbit Hole - $19.99
I am a sucker for Alice in Wonderland themed games, and this one does it justice. If you like games like Moss, you'll appreciate the immersive environment and charming characters in this puzzler. It is clever how it draws you in, the artwork is playful and lovely, and the puzzles are right in the middle of the difficulty spectrum. Hidden collectibles throughout as well, to get you really scouring your environments, which are deep and beautiful.

The Room VR: A Dark Matter - $29.99
I have played every The Room game available from Fireproof Games, so knew I was going to really love this game. 3D environment with physical puzzles to solve, in order to unlock...more puzzles! If you want to know if this type of game is to your liking before sinking $30 into it, the original The Room is something like $.99 to put on an iPad or smart phone. $4.99 each for the next three titles, as of this writing. It is low on story, but high in ambiance. Beautiful environments, creative puzzles. And the VR chapter of this series delivers on everything I love about the original series of games.

A Fisherman's Tale - $14.99
This is a title developed by a French team, and their unique approach to the art and puzzle mechanics shines through. It is just so CLEVER. The way you interact with the environments is like nothing I have ever played before, and will have you feel like Alice in Wonderland (no relation to Down the Rabbit Hole above LOL). Let's just say you bend the laws of physics to achieve your goals.

Time Stall - $14.99
In A Fishermans' Tale you bend physics, but in this title, you bend time. You are on board a futuristic space liner, and the robots have gone rogue. Using a limited ability to slow time, you can avert disaster by leveraging items in your environment to undermine the robot's murderous intentions. The game is cheeky and slap-sticky, and it will get your heart racing in the best way possible.

The Curious Tale of the Stolen Pets - $9.99
Guided by your grandfather's voice, unravel the mystery of the stolen pets! A story-supported puzzler, with adorable miniature claymation-style environments to interact with as you try to solve the physical puzzles. This one can be fun to play with hand tracking, which makes you feel even more immersed in the scenes. While it misses the tactile feedback from the grips, it frees you in other ways-- turning, pinching, grabbing, nudging. And the environment itself encourages you to bend down, lean in, peek into and around obstacles to see all the details. Really adorable.

Ghost Giant - $24.99
A gorgeous game with a bit of a heavy story from Swedish developers Zoink Games. You really enter the world, reaching through the 4th wall to share in the environment with the characters. Similar to Moss, in that you will manipulate the environment for your tiny protagonist to be able to solve various puzzles. The world often offers dioramas you can turn to examine and interact with to discover what needs to be done to advance the story. I said heavy story, but don't let that scare you off. It is ultimately a story of courage and hope, and worth every minute spent helping your little friend in his time of need.

Shadow Point - $19.99
Let's be honest. They had me at Patrick Stewart narrating it. But the game itself has a unique puzzle mechanic in using shadows and mirror images to manipulate your environments, unfolding a story chapter by chapter.

Casual & Social

AltSpace - FREE
This is a free platform for world building and social connection. Which means it will have its downsides, too (people online can be awful, but the community here is one of the best I've experienced in VR, truly). It is strange at first to talk to people in VR, and I was very shy when I started out. Luckily, I stuck with it, figured out what kind of spaces I wanted to occupy, and what experiences I wanted to seek out, and fell in love with it. Some of my favorite things to do is attend lectures or poetry readings, and go to "the movies"--virtual movie theaters playing blockbuster movies. I got to watch a rocket launch in real time in a space dedicated to learning about modern space travel, complete with a museum full of ship models, bios on astronauts, and more. There are virtual art installations, nightclubs, escape rooms/mazes, and classrooms to learn new things. Every day is different, so keep an eye on upcoming events to pop in and check out what you're interested in! (downside, you must create or have a Microsoft account for login to this platform. Microsoft purchased them not long ago, and made it a requirement.)

Walkabout Mini Golf - $14.99
This is just casual, social fun. Carve out a 3X3 space in your living room and hop back into your childhood playing mini golf. Make a room with friends and compete with each other while you chat. Lots of different courses to choose from.

Premium Bowling - $19.99
Multiple different themed bowling alleys, a simple interface, and a chance to get to the lanes from the comfort of your home. Bonus: no tennis elbow!

Cook Out! - $19.99
You are a sandwich chef, trying to fill orders at a breakneck pace! You have to prep and stack the ingredients properly to fulfill the orders, and achieve the best score possible. You can play solo, but the real fun is in cooperative play with friends, where you divide tasks between you and have to communicate as best you can, coordinating the sandwich artistry between you to fill the orders in time. This will get your heart rate up, and elicits a lot of laughter.

Honorable Mentions

Demeo - $29.99
I don't know where to slot this one in, and my recommendation for it would really only go to very specific gamers, so I put it down here. It's like a D&D game meets a deck builder, with a 3D game board in front of you, where all your minis are playing out the battles in front of you. You can play solo and up to 4 players. There are ways to get matched with strangers online, but I don't prefer to trust that, so I've mostly played solo and a bit with my husband on a second Oculus. For me it was a little bit challenging to learn at first, and the scenarios are not easy, but once you get the rhythm of your character class, the options become more clear and you will get closer to beating the biggest bosses.

Alcove - FREE
Clearly looking to harness Boomers and their immediately adjacent aging generations, Alcove transports you to a calm home with a big TV with curated content, a collection of simple virtual games, walls where you can put up photos of your loved ones, a virtual world tour to visit unique locations around the globe in full surround, and more. While it isn't very deep, developers are actively trying to increase content. It is completely free, so worth getting to check it out.

Pottery VR - $19.99
Learn pottery skills, including shaping, firing, and painting your pieces. Increasing skills gets you not only money to expand your set of tools and glazes, but also some popularity. You start to receive commission requests. Do your best to match your masterpiece as closely as possible to the inspiration item to receive payment and more commissions, or make your own creations to sell at auction. This game is just very...chill. The kind of game where you do very little, so it's relaxing, but you still feel like you have something to work toward, so you aren't bored.

RealVR Fishing - $19.99
I hesitate to list this one, because I think it's kind of a high price for what you get. But people who get into this game get REALLY into this game. If you just need a quiet escape from the outside world, doing a casual activity, this might hit the right note for you. Travel around South Korea to the most beautiful rivers, lakes, and ocean views (they added the US West expansion recently as well). Collect fish in your giant fish tank at your own personal cabin on the water. Upgrade your fishing kit and boats, buy hats and clothing. You can crate a room to play with friends and chat while you fish. You can always try it and return it if it isn't up your alley, so I include it for your consideration.